Saturday, August 17, 2019

Teachers



My father would drive me and my siblings by the school.  I remember the picket line well; it stretched the length of the short road that was in front of my elementary school.  Familiar faces holding signs and chanting things I did not understand.  Apparently, dad did.  He would rant how selfish and greedy they were, how they should be in the classroom teaching but nooo they cared more about money, money, money.  This would be a song I heard often sung by my father.  He didn't like teachers.  He may have liked the people, but as teachers, he did not.  Much of my father's opinions were heard very loud in our home and often.  From teacher strikes to politics we knew his stance and I took on some of those opinions myself.

I grew up and had my own children.  Five beautiful smart kiddos filled my home.  I didn't rant about teacher strikes or politics, I figured it was beyond their understanding just like it was mine and I was learning I had my own contradicting opinions.  We started homeschooling when my now 12 yr. old was seven.  Throughout our homeschooling years, I fell in love with teaching my kids and through this process I began to appreciate teachers.  I only taught four children five days a week and oh my goodness...so much work!  Public school teacher average 20 plus students each! I learned the sacrifices teachers make for their children…time, energy, money, emotional investment, just to name a few.  

I cherished our homeschooling years, last year we returned to school.  Beautiful teachers poured into my children.  They sincerely cared for them, tendered their hearts, challenged my kids, and worked hard to give them a solid education asking for nothing in return.  Through the year I made special efforts to let the teachers know that I appreciated them.  I cried with K & S's teacher as we closed the first-grade chapter of their lives.  Each year counts, each teacher makes a difference.

I witnessed firsthand their character, which was nothing like the picture my father attempted to paint.  Even when I was a child, I didn’t view my teachers the same way he did. My husband and I can remember teachers from almost every year of school…we named them for our kids over supper one night.  I’m not sure they were impressed, but it says I remember you; you made an impact.

Today we live in the big ol' state of Texas and my children are in school.  Yesterday was their second day.  It’s been quite the culture shock for us, coming from a school of approximately 300ish students to well over 1,000!  From one 6th grade class to eight!  From one language (English) to several (English, Chinese, Spanish).  We love it, we are embracing it, we are excited about it.  AND the teachers are fantastic!  I have spent several days in the school helping with little projects, learning faces and names and I saw firsthand the efforts being made to make this a wonderful school year.  

CONFESSION...I disagree wholeheartedly with my father.  I love teachers!  I got giddy with excitement when I saw #clearthelist on social media.  I love to give.  I LOVE random acts of kindness (RAK, see my Pinterest board on the right-hand side).  It’s a genius idea to show the teachers how much we appreciate them.  And its super easy...just ask them for their amazon wish list, click an item, check out and its sent directly to them.  You can even include a note!  This is just one simple, fast, easy way to show your appreciation.  Other ideas...send them personal thank you notes, a Starbucks drink card, smelly stickers, offer your TIME!  


CHALLENGE: Ok, I think I have made it clear how much I adore teachers.  I want to challenge you to a couple things...

-If you believe something from your childhood that was impressed upon you by your parents or someone else, I challenge you to look closer, dig deeper and ask yourself if YOU truly believe it for yourself.

-volunteer in your child's classroom even if it’s just for an hour and see firsthand their hearts.

-If you can't volunteer, and even if you can...ask them for their list and bless them.  Maybe you can only afford to buy a pack of pens or a $3.99 book, trust me, they appreciate it.  If you are financially able clear their list...buy it ALL!  It’s fun and it’s worth it!  Remember they are educating the future generation of our nation...it matters!

-Thank your teachers, from your childhood...while you still can.

I know I will miss many but I feel led to mention those who do come to mind...
Mrs. Lowell, Mrs.Bridges, Mrs. Lockhart, Mrs. Riedemann...a few of K&S's teachers.  
Elizabeth Boggs, Wendi Cramer, Kristi Aseltine, Rachel Pitcher, Mrs. Pullen, Mrs. Severson, Mrs. Stanley, Mrs. Warfel, Mrs. Donaldson, Mrs. Dixon, Mrs. Wetzel, Mrs. Shaffer...a few of Z&E's teachers.
Mrs. Greathouse, Mrs. Jordan, Mrs. Childress, Mrs. Eskew, Mrs. Duzan (both of you!) and Mr. Duzan, Mr. Foreman, Mrs. Hood, Mrs. Meese, Mrs. Eckerty, Mrs. Hawkins, Mrs. Andrews, Mrs. Stites, Mr. & Mrs. Tracy, Mr. Sullivan, Mrs. Stewart, Mrs. Roll, oh goodness, so many, cause I'm old, you know who you are!  

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(Mrs. Wheeler and I years later, she was my Home Economics teacher in highschool)

You are all appreciated!  You are all beautiful people!

Monday, August 12, 2019

Conversations That Matter


I made it to the chair but oh how the baggage of the day fights for my attention.  The Monday to-do list of laundry, dishes, fill bird feeders, water plants and all the last-minute back-to-school matters nag with persistence.  But here I am.
Be brave enough to start conversations that matter.
Yesterday we went to lunch with a couple from our Life Group. We enjoy getting to know our new Texan peeps in and out of the traditional setting.  We ate lunch at a Mexican restaurant, and if you know me at all, you know I don’t do spicy…not even a little.  I ordered my food from the menu laid out in white, black and red colors with devil spears covering the page.  I thought Oh boy, here we go!  By God’s grace I managed just fine and enjoyed the food.  I’m learning I like Tex-Mex, no heat please. It’s nothing like the Mexican food served in Illinois, use your imagination.
I love hearing God’s goodness sprinkled in the lives of those around us.  Our new friends were open and vulnerable with us.  I enjoyed every minute of their story!  Go deep or go home. I know its not for everyone and there is a time and place to be had for sharing such depth.  We all enjoyed a great time of authenticity and connection.  I think I have shared before; I feel like God created each of us with a desire for community and connection, its rooted in our soul, in our being.  The question is are we brave enough to go there?
“You story could be the key that unlocks someone else’s prison, don’t be afraid to share it.”
We invited them back to our new home, our first couple to visit, yippee!  Brett made coffee and we settled in for more.  They listened with compassion and tears as we shared our life stories.  Its easy to want to close down pack our stories away in a box sealed, signed and delivered to the attic to never be opened again.  It’s safe there, not really, but it feels that way.  No risk.  No growth.  Brett and I made a choice, mutually together, sometime along the way that it isn’t our story, its God’s story.  He gets the glory for where we are today.  So, we unpack it together for our friends.  Its messy, not rehearsed.  We rip off our scabs and allow the pain to ooze once again.  We felt gutted, but safe.  Exposed but loved.  Vulnerable but appreciated.  Sharing our story is part of the healing journey, for us and those who listen.  More light penetrates the dark corners each time we choose to be brave enough to share.    
Our desire is for those who hear our pain and suffering to see Jesus in the midst, for them to catch a glimpse of his presence in our lives.  For His faithfulness to be evident throughout our struggles and times of despair when we hit bottom with no sense of direction.  We believe God is in the business of restoring and mending shattered lives.  We know he does; we are his evidence.  Your life may not unfold the way you had planned or hoped but trust God has you.  Redemption is beautiful, it’s worth it and its free.  We want to offer you hope along your journey and the courage to share your story. 
“What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful” -Brene Brown.